Mistakes

We all are guilty of making them. But are they really that terrible if we learn from them? I mean, yeah if you mistakenly kill someone... Yeaaaahhh that's bad. But little mistakes? Eh. If we learn from them and try to not do it in the future, it's a learning experience. The decisions we make in life not only show who we are but they mold who we are.
I've made my fair share of mistakes. And who is one to judge me for it? I am who I am because of them. Sometimes I may not like who I am, but I am me. No one else out there is exactly like me. No one else has made all of the same decisions, whether good or bad, as me. So if someone is going to judge me and they've never made the same choices as me, I feel as if its unfair. They don't know what is going on in my life or why I chose to do what I did. They haven't been through what I have and don't understand me. It especially frustrates me when they've never done the thing I chose to do.
I'm not perfect by any means. I'm far from it. But maybe next time you are quick to judge someone, think about the shiz they've been through and perhaps think of reasons why they could have chosen to do what they did.
I'm sure everyone in this world has made at least one mistake. No one is perfect. No one knows every single detail about people's lives that makes it ok to judge others.
Yes, I regret many things. But would I go back and change them? Not sure. The rape, yes. But the majority of the rest of life... Don't think I would.